18 Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. 19 And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly. 20 But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21 She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” 22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet:
23 “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son,
and they shall call his name Immanuel”
(which means, God with us). Matthew 1:23
Surrounding Jesus’ birth there are many surprises and miracles. Many prophecies are fulfilled and promises of God kept because of the arrival of the Christ Child. Consider these surprises in relationships that occurred.
A Surprise In Relationship with Mary and Joseph.
There is no doubt that Joseph felt cheated and used. He had to wrestle with a ton of emotions and questions upon hearing that his fiancee’ is expecting a baby and he is not the father! But Joseph was a good and nobel man and did not want to embarrass Mary. Moreover he could have publicly shamed her and had her stoned, which was in his right to do but instead, he was looking for a way to quietly dismiss her. This surprise was an act of true love from Joseph to Mary. He sincerely loved her by trying to care for her emotionally and physically before he really understood all that was happening. If Mary ever had a wonder if Joseph loved her, she had no doubt now. Sometimes it is during the most trying of times that love can surprise you. Their relationship was evidently much deeper than anything physical. The unexpected pregnancy lead to the wonderful surprise of a love that was deeper than doubt, speculation, and fear. How are your relationships? When surprises pop up, how does your relationship with your spouse hold up? Are you fighting for your “rights”? Are you seeking what’s best for your spouse? Why not let love deepen and surprise everyone who’s watching, waiting for you to respond. Surprise them with your godly relationship.
A Surprise in Relationship with Mary and God.
Mary didn’t choose this herself. In fact, if she had been offered the choice, she may have given any number of excuses:
“I’m too young”
“I’m about to be married”
“Isn’t there someone else?”
“I have my whole life ahead of me…can this wait a little while longer?”
Yet God chose her, at her age, with her situation, at this time. She’s just a simple teenage girl…no mothering “experience”, yet qualified enough for God to give her the job. Perhaps God looks at us much differently than we look at ourselves? Maybe God’s relationship with us should be looked at as God’ choosing us, awaiting us to choose Him back? At the end of her conversation with the angel, Mary submits to God’s choice of her. She surrenders her life and will to obedience and acceptance of all that God wants to do with her. She exemplifies what we should be like in our relationship with God. Has God chosen you for something that seems bigger than you? What excuses have you been giving to God lately? How would your relationship to others change if you had this kind of open full acceptance of God’s choosing in your life?
A Surprise in Relationship With God and Man.
Early in the Garden of Eden we are told that God was walking in the cool of the day with earth’s first created beings. However, after the Fall, God doesn’t walk with mankind in this way again…until now. The title given to Jesus is Immanuel (Emmanuel as some may write it). This name is significant because now God is walking, breathing and in human form among his creation once again. This is HUGE for the entire human race. God pulls a surprise on us that no one would have ever expected. Sure there were many prophecies about the coming Messiah. For hundreds of years, prophets, priests, kings, wisemen, and even common people longed for and looked for the arrival of the King. It’s just no one expected Him to come as a baby in a manger.
God showed up in a way that changed everything. And still affects everything to this day. Mankind now not only has a God in Heaven but one who walked on earth. Because of this relationship, God can say He knows what we are going through. He understands what it’s like to feel hunger, sadness, pain, sorrow, suffering, along with the myriad of other emotions we deal with on a daily basis. Now that God has surprised us in coming to form a new way of relating to us, we never have to fear being far from Him again. Thanks be to God for His unspeakable gift! Do you feel close to God today? Why or why not? Does your relationship with God ever change? What does it mean to you that God is with you? How does having a relationship with God change your outlook on life?